Friends...

I have always known friends come into your life for a reason and just as they have slid in, they will slide out. I am in the sliding out process of some friendships. There is a tinge of sadness and a touch of melancholy yet beneath all of this, there is a deep set knowing that this is right.

I have always been a pleaser. It is a pathway we set ourselves on from a very early age and as it seems a tried and true path, we keep to the path...never venturing from safe. One day many of us wake up so to speak and decide to step off the path. We wander aimlessly and sometimes fear will take us back to the known pathway, but through all of this, we learn. We learn that the safe pathway is not always the best way. It is a way...but not the best way. It takes courage to step out of the path....but it takes even greater courage to do it alone.

I have someone who wants to take me on her path. I do not want to go. I have found my path. I like my path and I don't want to share the other path. I am happy for her to go on her pathway...just don't ask me to go. Sometimes during our life, we have to say no...to detach from those who draw from ourselves a negativity. It is with this attachment of negativity that we can never grow forwards, to grow upwards.

You reap what you sew. I find that with my new found spiritual consciousness I am not drawn to the same people. I wish to be around like minded souls who encourage and unlift your souls, not be negative and drag down the energy. I am in a good place. I do not have a wish for the latest and greatest of anything. I am not looking for love, nor do I seek to go to places where I may find love. I am finding me. I am learning to love me. I do not want to look for anything else.

So with the greatest of love and good intention, fly free my friend. I wish the best for your journey and love and light to you.